Andrew Luxem
FREESKILL v1.0UPDATED 2026-08

Coaching Models

Coaching Models prepares one GROW conversation, a development cycle, or a plan audit without scripting answers, coercing agreement, or disguising a formal process as coaching.

Developmental coaching helps a person clarify a goal, examine the current reality, generate options, and choose a commitment they can influence. The coach can ask, listen, challenge, and offer support. The coach cannot manufacture the coachee's perspective or present a preferred answer as self-discovery.

This playbook stays outside discipline, investigation, therapy, diagnosis, legal judgment, and employment decisions. A formal performance process must be named and routed to authorized humans instead of being softened or concealed as coaching.

A coaching question preserves meaningful choice. A disguised instruction does not.

SIGNALS YOU NEED THIS
The coach has a preferred solution and has already scripted the coachee's answer.
A development topic lacks a supplied incident, evidence baseline, owner, or review date.
A disciplinary warning or formal performance process is being relabeled as coaching.
REPLACES
Advice disguised as questions, coerced admissions, invented incidents, and formal processes hidden inside coaching language.
PAIRS WITH
SBI Format Feedback, Goals, and Annual Reviews. Authorized discipline, health, legal, and employment processes stay separate.